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A curated list of relationship anarchy articles, books, essays and interviews. If you'd like to recommend more such materials, reach out or DM me on Mastodon.

Materials on polyamory, ethical non-monogamy and other critiques of normative relationships are not included here. I'm interested in curating a list that focused on relationship anarchy.

Articles, posts, essays

Andie Nordgren - The short instructional manifesto for relationship anarchy

Andie Nordgren - The Road to Relationship Anarchy

The Thinking Aro - Relationship Anarchy is not About Sex or Polyamory

Ole Martin Moen, Aleksander Sørlie - The Ethics of Relationship Anarchy

R. Foxtale - Relationship Anarchy is not Post-Polyamory

Against Monogamism, For Liberation!

Kim TallBear - Looking for Love in Too Many Languages… Polyamory? Relationship Anarchy? Dyke Ethics? Significant Otherness? All my Relations?

Mariia Karhu - Manifesto for Relationship Anarchy 2.0

Mx. Flow - Relationship Anarchism: Theory and Practice

tiro - Relationship Anarchy and its Discontents

Yasmin Nair - Polyamory Is Gay Marriage for Straight People

Alex Ștefănescu - Relationship Anarchy. Dreaming In the Belly of the Whale

Books

Juan Carlos Pérez Cortés - Relationship Anarchy. Occupy Intimacy!

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